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I Stopped Looking for the “Why” and Found This Instead
CW: suicide loss, grief For a long time after my dad died, I was a detective. I replayed conversations. I analyzed text messages. I interrogated my own memories like a witness who couldn't keep her story straight. What did he say that Tuesday? Did his voice sound different? Was that comment a clue I missed? I wasn't just grieving. I was investigating. I thought if I could just figure out why, something would click into place. The chaos would organize itself into a narrative t

Rev. Marshall K Hammer
May 285 min read


What People Grieving Suicide Loss Wish You Understood
Content Warning: Suicide loss, grief, death You probably know someone who has lost a loved one to suicide. Actually, let me say that differently. More than 42% of American adults know someone who has died by suicide. That's nearly half of us. Over 48,000 Americans die by suicide every year. That means approximately 135 people today. And by some estimates, each suicide loss profoundly affects at least 135 other people. ( American Foundation for Suicide Prevention ) Photo: Aaro

Rev. Marshall K Hammer
Feb 266 min read


From My Heart to Yours: Coping after Suicide Loss
CW: suicide loss Losing someone to suicide is one of the most painful experiences imaginable. The grief can feel like a relentless...

Rev. Marshall K Hammer
May 9, 20244 min read


Power in Words: Affirmations for Coping with Suicide Loss
If you've lost a loved one to suicide, you know the depths of sorrow that can surround you, especially in the first few months after the...

Rev. Marshall K Hammer
Sep 21, 20232 min read
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